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Whether in childhood or as an adult, so many people experience some kind of traumatic experience in their lifetime. Whether they know it or not, that trauma brings negative energy.
In some, it’s manifested as anxiety in others it’s expressed as a lack of ability to express emotions or thinking negative thoughts. These people suffer on the inside while all appear normal on the surface.
Left unresolved, such trauma can cause chaos in life and also leads to addiction. Trauma and substance abuse, unfortunately, often go hand in hand.
While many other things can also be considered traumatic, these are fairly standard. When a child experiences trauma, they don’t fully understand how to cope. Not many, if any at all, can deal with traumatic experiences healthily during childhood. Instead, they become detached or silent about their feelings.
As time progresses and they enter their teenage years, that trauma builds up negative energy and expands. You could compare it to an overfilled balloon that’s so full of air that it could explode at any given moment.
Consider emotions as energy in motions. If a person doesn’t process the feelings and cope with them positively, the energy has no way to resolve itself except an emotional overload or breakdown. As a result, the link between trauma and substance abuse can accelerate the longer it goes ignored.
Ever feel immense pain and self-medicate with alcohol, drugs, sex, food, porn, shopping, etc.? Everyone does, myself included. Been there, done that, and sometimes still find myself reaching for something to soothe the inner pain that pops up.
One form of therapy I’ve found helpful has been something I hadn’t even heard of before I began with my counselor, called somatic experiencing therapy.
Trauma can absolutely foster addiction when the pain becomes too heavy a pain to bear. The deeply buried trauma from childhood causes people to do things that appear insane to those on the outside looking in. Trauma and addiction are both problematic when we are exposed to triggers, or otherwise mundane events or objects which can bring us back to a state of mind in which we are vulnerable to relapse. This is the thread that ties trauma and addiction together.
Are you feeling depressed, anxious all the time, inexplicably angry, experience mood swings, live in fear, or stuck in a state of grief or emotional detachment?
If those describe you, then you might have some deeply buried pain or trauma. It’s deep inside of you, and it’s up to you to dig it out, cope with it, and resolve it. Only then can you free yourself. Yes, it is possible just to let it go.
When I had my emotional breakdown, I couldn’t hold back my emotions any longer. Simply put, I was a basket case. I reached out to ask for help. I could not allow the pain to dictate my life, and I made that difficult but worthwhile decision.
There are many options for dealing with such emotional trauma and long-buried pain. Seek the help of a therapist of a 12-Step group. Educate yourself on coping with trauma and addiction. Or, try all of the above. Whatever method works for you, just seize the day and do it.
Remember, there’s no right or wrong, each person has is unique and needs treatment for their specific situation. The hardest step is asking for help in beginning this inner journey towards healing your old wounds; soon, you’ll have a new perspective on your life.
Only you can do it—and you can! Start living one day at a time as you head into your recovery.
I like to say that if I can do it, then anyone can!
Edward lives and works in South Florida and has been a part of its recovery community for many years. With a B.A. in English Literature from the University of Massachusetts, he works to help Find Addiction Rehabs as both a writer and marketer. Edward loves to share his passion for the field through writing about addiction topics, effective treatment for addiction, and behavioral health as a whole. Alongside personal experience, Edward has deep connections to the mental health treatment industry, having worked as a medical office manager for a psychiatric consortium for many years.
